How is pornography idealized?

Taken from: https://www.marthadebayle.com/v2/radio/porno-en-mexico/

To understand why the idealization of pornography occurs, we must address the following issues:

1. Sexualization of women

FUN FACT 👀: more than 48% of pornographic content is based on verbal assaults and almost 89% physical assaults directed towards women. Don't you think it's terrible? 😱. This gives an image that pleasure is directed towards and for the man, through the violence of the woman, which increasingly normalizes the abuse and a clear difference in gender roles, where the man is the dominant one and the woman submissive 

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2. Sex education
The problem does not lie in the consumption of pornography, but rather in the fact that people are building their foundations of intimacy on unreal, violent, and unequal sex. Society has turned porn into a learning school about: how to have sex?, in what situations?, with whom?, what parts of the body to use?; which motivates the total distortion of the reality of sex, a natural process that thanks to pornography is idealized to the point of becoming the way to educate oneself, but...does it really provide the correct tools to be seen in this way? this way? ☝

Taken from: https://www.yogateca.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Salud-sexual.jpg

In addition, if we realize, children and adolescents find in pornography the only space to find out about sexuality, since this subject continues to be taboo and not finding other ways, they take refuge in this content so that when they have sexual relations do not look "inexperienced", which becomes an instruction manual.

WAIT! Before you continue downloading, in case you want to expand this information further, we leave you this really interesting link on sexuality and pleasure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xo2fjFcL-qM. We hope it helps you expand your knowledge about this!

And don't forget to see the naked reality of the little sexual education that society provides 😑 NO SEX EDUCATION 😑


3. Fracture in interpersonal relationships

Since there is unreal sex, people idealize intimacy with their partner to the point of being disappointed if it does not turn out in the same way as it happens in pornographic videos, fracturing emotional ties and worse still, removing the desire for the other, causing insecurities for not meeting the required expectations 💔.

For example, there is a myth that pornography improves intimacy in marriages, but here we will give you 5 reasons why this is totally false:
  1. Taken from: https://www.freepik.es/vector-gratis/ilustracion-baja-autoestima_11241545.htm
    Destroys self-esteem: When exposed to pornography, the level of satisfaction with physical appearance, sexual performance and affection decrease when being with the partner.

  2. Taken from: https://ar.pinterest.com/pin/315955730081923949/
    Leads to marital dissatisfaction: Romance ends, since pornography is easy and fast, people see that love relationships are complicated and require constant work, so they create an environment of continuous disinterest in front of their partner. 

  3. Tomado de: https://lamenteesmaravillosa.com/seducir-es-un-arte/
    Promotes infidelity: You will not believe us when we tell you that the consumption of pornography increases the probability of infidelity by 300% thanks to the fact that you begin to lose commitment to formal relationships.
  4. Taken from: https://extension.uned.es/actividad/idactividad/23995
    Breaks mutual trust: When one of the two is an active consumer of pornography, the other feels betrayed and strange when he finds out about this practice.

  5. Makes respect and emotional intimacy difficult: 
    Taken from: https://www.gndiario.com/casos-sextorsion-sexual-ciberacoso
    Thanks to porn, people begin to treat the other as a sexual object, which causes the creation of a barrier that prevents communication and respect.

  1. Sources (In Spanish)


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